4. Greek Godesses Series - Hera

I think aloud. Get married. To be somebody's wife. To sign a contract. What is the purpose of it all?

Today, in the 21st century, does it grant a certain "status"? A certain "security"? Hundreds of years ago, to exclude yourself from that institution meant that your value as a person was scarce. A woman was judged by the man who accompanied them. If you were alone you were a social leftover, since you had not matched the supposed qualities to get a candidate. Only a few chose celibacy as a way of engaging in a trade, occupation or profession.

I look at myself, I always remember myself wanting to pair up, accepting that it doesn't work for me to be alone. And now that finally someone who makes me feel good shows up, and with whom I believe I can build something, my fantasies vanished, and reality began to become evident. The pink stories transmitted from generation to generation are no longer useful.

While there are many beautiful moments, there are difficult ones. Different values ​​appear, different timing, different priorities. Although he seems "the best in the world" there are times that he is off-hook with out-of-place and devaluing comments .... And I have forgiven their faults as I also hope they will forgive me. I only hope to have enough lucidity to distinguish the superfluous from the important and be tolerant of minor things. And do not encourage and chop-off toxic behaviors.